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We admitted we were
powerless over alcohol (fill in the blank) and that our lives had become
unmanageable.
BOOK
REFERENCES: 
AA: Chapters
1 and 3 in the Big Book - Dr’s Opinion & More About Alcoholism - Step
One in AA’s Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions ACTION PAGES:
Page 30, Paragraph 2, Lines 1 - 3
NA: Step
One in Narcotics Anonymous Basic Text - Step One in NA’s, It Works- How
and Why & The Narcotics Anonymous Step Working Guides.

I have given 2 different homework assignments on this step. One is to
write, or tell how you were powerless over your addiction and how was your life
unmanageable. I usually share some of my story with the individual to give
examples of what I mean.
Example:
I was powerless over alcohol because I would
write a check to stay at the bar longer and drink, when I knew there was no
money in the bank. I would never write a bad check for any else but
alcohol or drugs. My life was unmanageable because I would go out for a
few drinks and the next thing I would know, another holiday or birthday had been
missed with the family. I really wanted to be there, but I was too drunk
and embarrassed to show up.
Another homework assignment I have been known to give out is to have people
write out "How Alcohol/Drugs gave me Power." Again, I give my
sponsee examples of this.
Example:
Alcohol and Drugs gave me power, or
empowered me because if I was sad, angry, mad, lonely, whatever the unwanted
emotion, I drank to feel better. I drank and the loneliness went away!
The sadness left, the angry usually subsided for the night. This gave me
power.

You can see the full write up I did on POWERLESS HERE.

Some the Links Below, may help you in your reading and
understanding.





For the Newcomer -
20
Questions That Only You Can Answer
We have seen the truth demonstrated
again and again:
"Once an alcoholic, always an alcoholic." Commencing to drink after a period of sobriety, we are in a short time as bad as ever. If we are planning to stop drinking, there must be
no reservation of any kind, nor any lurking notion that someday we will be
immune to alcohol.
ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 33
You only get
out of it what you put into it

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